Real Women, don’t compete



Bo, qoben don’t. Ompete

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Itu adalah tulisan original dari: ‘No, women don’t compete.’ Yang ditulis tanpa dihapus dan diperbaiki.

I do typo like ZILLION TIMES! I even mistyped every person’s name I put in my contact sore tadi. SEMUANYA!

But I care to present my self in the best way possible, tapi bukan untuk bangga-banggaan, melainkan untuk menunjukkan bahwa saya respect dengan orang yang saya ajak bicara melalui pesan singkat. Saya bertanggung jawab untuk menyampaikan dengan kata-kata baik dan tertata. Just to show them that I respect them, yang kalau beruntung bolehlah dibalas respect ai juga lah.

Hidup adalah saling harga-menghargai. Tapi kita pantang minta dihargai. Jadi untuk orang yang tidak bisa menghargai kita, ya jangan minta-minta tuk dihargai. 

Apasih.

Yang jelas habis zoom call malam ini, yang lagi-lagi selesai jam satu pagi, dengan pasukan perempuan yang terpisah-pisah.. saya dapat satu-dua insight menarik. 

But.. nah. What can I say. ‘Young people love to narrate their life too much’

So yeah. 
Just one thing for sure:

No, women don’t compete each other. They eat!
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Tf it’s already SUNDAY! :((((((

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